Ring size? How to work it out, in secret... - Violet Gray (2024)

Hands are so oftena part of the body that we just don’t take notice of, until we are planning a surprise! Or even when they are our own fingers, often we have no clue what ring size we are. Right? And it can be confusing to work outfor a number of reasons.

But don’t worry, we can help!

You want to gift a ring (or potentially propose) to your love but you aren’t sure about her ring size.

If you are planning on being discreetand keeping this grand declaration as a surprise, here are our suggestions on how to work out her ring size.

Things to know, first.

Fingers are all different sizes(even when on the same hand)and typically, fingers are slightly different in size per hand. Normally when looking at the 3 x middle fingers on a hand – the ring finger is the smallest, followed by the middle finger, with the ‘pointer’being the largest. Size can differentiate between .5 of a size per finger (which is substantial in a fine shank / ring band).

Ie. My own fingers are a 6, 6.5 and 7. Also, the dominant hand will be slightly larger than her other.

Seasonal: Fingers will swell in heat and shrink in the cold. They may also change with pregnancy (do we even need to share this with you – you know, right?)

Design matters: a ring that has a wider or thicker band will fit more snug, than one that is finer and more delicate.

Do not measure a super thick band and expect a fine band to be the same size, as it won’t be. For wider styles of rings, you should add a half size to your ring size.

International sizing: as ring sizes are not universal, there may be slight variances between our sizing and other brands/companies.Different countries go by different numbers or letters. Familiarise yourself with the conversion here: The Official International Ring Size Conversion Chart.

Resizing: depending on the design, not all rings can be resized. If the band is attached to the setting of the stone, sometimes, you cannot resize this style without risking damaging the stone. This is why size is IMPORTANT.

5 ways to measure a ring size

1. Measure the inside diameter of a ring (from inside edge straight across) that she wears on the engagement finger. Ensure it is a ring style with a finer band, as to match the bands that we offer. As we mentioned above, larger settings fit completely differently. Then match your measurement to the measurements in our sizing guide.

2. Ask her friend / sister / mother (and then swear them to secrecy). They may know, or be able to subtly find out this information for you.

3. If she’s a deep sleeper, you can use a piece of string or rope to measure her finger, mark the spot where the material comes together, and then calculate the ring size (you can use our sizing guide for additional help).

4. If you are not concerned with subtlety, ask her directly. Or gently nudge that she should go and have her fingers all accurately and professionally sized. And then tell you each one. (Write it down immediately – sizing isconfusing).

5. You can also purchase our ring sizer HERE and not so subtly give it to her.

Once you have your love’s ring size the fun begins… time to pick out the perfect ring, gift orpropose!

Ring size? How to work it out, in secret... - Violet Gray (2024)

FAQs

How do you work out the size of a ring? ›

Take some string or a piece of paper no wider than 1.4 cm. Wrap it around your finger and mark with a pen where one end of the string or paper meets the other. Then line the string or paper against a ruler and read off the measurement. Using the chart below, you can match your finger measurement to a ring size.

How do you guess your ring size? ›

To determine your ring size, do the following:
  1. Use a piece of string or dental floss and wrap it around the base of your finger.
  2. Use a pen to mark the point on the string where the end meets.
  3. Use a millimeter ruler to measure the string.
  4. Choose the closest measurement to the chart above to find your ring size.

Is there an app to determine ring size? ›

Ring Sizer - your reliable companion in the world of jewelry. Shop confidently online and find the perfect size for your rings and fingers. Don't wait. Download Ring Sizer now and get accurate measurements in just a few moments.

What is the app that tells you your ring size? ›

Ring Sizer by Jason Withers © on the App Store.

Is there a way to measure your ring size at home? ›

Instructions
  1. Cut a thin strip of paper.
  2. Wrap the paper around your finger. Make sure the paper is below the joint of your finger and close to your knuckle.
  3. Mark the spot where the paper meets and measure the distance with your ruler.
  4. Use the following chart to determine your ring size. Rings also come in half sizes.

How can I check my ring size online for free? ›

Use sizer to measure your finger

This tool features a gradient of ring sizes which can give you a more accurate measure of your finger. If you choose to download the sizing tool, make sure that your print out is the correct size. Then, cut out the sizing tool.

How do I find out my girlfriend's ring size without asking? ›

Here are a few things you can try.
  1. Ask a Friend or Sibling. ...
  2. Steal a Ring She Wears Often. ...
  3. Put it On Your Own Finger. ...
  4. Test With a Different Ring. ...
  5. Request a Ring Sizer. ...
  6. Purchase a Larger Ring and Resize it Later. ...
  7. Just Ask.
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Is ring sizing free? ›

Free Ring Sizer Request Form

We'll mail you a free ring sizer that's unisex and reusable so you can easily find the exact size that's most comfortable for you. All you have to do is wrap our sizer around the finger you'd like to measure and adjust it to the size that feels right.

What is the average ring size for a man? ›

What Is The Average Ring Size For Men? The average ring size for men is a size 9. If you don't have access to a smart phone or printer, we recommend using the average men's ring size to determine the best size to order for your home try-on.

Can you tell if a ring has been sized? ›

on the shank you may see a seam after sizing (which should have been disclosed by the jeweler before resizing), but you shouldn't see a seam on a plain shank. I have had many rings resized and have never had a seam showing. They should polish it after resizing so the seam is invisible.

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