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Summary. In this interview, Kindra Hall, author of Choose Your Story, Change Your Life, explains “self-stories” — the automatic thoughts that influence how you perceive the world. She shares tips on how we can stop focusing on the negative stories, reframe our thinking, and actively identify and choose the stories that will help us move forward.
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When I was in high school, my English teacher told me that I’d never make it as a writer. The stink of red ink sat heavy in the air as he walked me through his edits on yet another one of my “C-” (or “below average”) papers. He turned the page to reveal more of my carefully chosen words scratched out and discarded. That’s when he dropped the bomb: “I just don’t think you have what it takes.”