The subtle influence of dress on your personality and confidence
11 min read · Sep 26, 2023
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The choice of what to wear on a given day often feels like a routine, a task we rush through without much thought. But what if I told you that your clothes can influence your relationships with people and change your life?
I know some people think it really doesn’t matter what clothes a person is putting on as long as they feel comfortable in it. Beyond the style, your dress can shape your personality, fuel your energy, and elevate how you perform at work.
In one of Cinderella’s most iconic scenes, the Fairy Godmother changes Cinderella’s clothes from rags into a beautiful ballgown. She’s now fit for the royal ball. People in attendance greet her with awe rather than the disdain she’d have faced upon arriving in her old, threadbare clothes.
The scene shows the power of dress; an outfit changes other people’s impressions of Cinderella, and she lives happily ever after.
Your dress—in a way, tweaking your choice of clothing—can be the most important shift that will change your life and career.
Your dress impacts how people see and treat you. If you want people to look at you differently, start by fixing your dress.
Most people think it’s shallow to judge others by what they’re wearing. After all, most highly successful people, especially in the tech industry, weara casualdress code that often includesshots, t-shirts, and hoodies regardless of the event.
I agree. Many things can define a person’s character, and clothing is just one small piece of the puzzle.
However, when someone meets you for the first time — say for a date, a job interview, or a party — they don’t know much about you. They know nothing about how you think. They have no clue about what interests you. They have no idea what you’re capable of.
The first thing they see about you is what’s right in front of them—your appearance. Guess what? Your dress plays a major role in their split-second judgment about you.